Wednesday, 5 November 2014

No one else appreciates the audience quite like Prithvi Theater does

Are you a theater lover but never acted in a play? Has your theater love been subjected to scrutiny a zillion times just because you never acted in or directed a play. Well it all stops here. Prithvi Theater and Makarand Deshpande pay tribute to the unsung heroes of every play - The audience. After all, what is God without a man?

The about 2 minutes long video appreciates how people battle their work schedules, traffic and other problems to watch a play. And how people queue up outside the theater patiently without complaining. ( I stand in the line at 8 for a 9 o'clock show just to get the best seats. Regular Prithvi goers would so relate to this).

As "just" an audience member who loves theater, I thank Prithvi Theater and Makarand Deshpande for this wonderful video and appreciating us.

Source: YouTube


The video is a promo for the Prithvi Theater Festival 2014 . Go experience a new and different side of  life in these 12 days.

Source: Prithvi Theater

Friday, 31 October 2014

5 reasons why you just cannot afford to miss the Prithvi Theater Festival 2014




Source: Prithvi Theater

The Prithvi theater Festival 2014 is around the corner. And here's why you just cannot afford to miss it.


1) It is the Meeca of  the Theater World -
The best of the theater world finds itself at Prithvi for the festival. No, I am not exaggerating. The festival kicks off with Motley's Einstein and  yes, it is  being staged for the very first time. And trust me, it will be a while before the play will be staged anywhere else again.  The line up for festival, as always, is extremely brilliant with some of industry's finest theater groups performing during the festival. You can check out the list of the plays being staged during Prithvi Theater Festival  here - http://www.prithvitheatre.org/
   
Besides this, you can also enjoy the Rambo Circus and an acoustic music gig during the festival. And of course, get to interact with the great Om Puri and other great actors. Seems like Christmas came in early this year!

2) The Amphitheater 


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Prithvi's charm lies in it's amphitheater. I love the fact that there is no stage to distinct between the performance area and the audience. And this is where Prithvi breaks the fourth wall between the actors and the audience. The proximity to the actors make you feel like you are a part of the play.

3) Instant brickbats and bouquets


Source: Kalki on Twitter

Where else would you find the director or the cast chilling right around the place after a performance. Go tell them what you liked or didn't like about the play, what could have been done better and what you interpret out of the play. I remember after a show of Nothing Like Lear, two members from the audience were discussing what they felt about a particular part of the play with the play's director Rajat Kapoor and he gave them such a patient hearing( Yes! I was eavesdropping and no, they weren't any celebrity or celebrity friends.) After all, who better to discuss your opinion about the play than the creators of the play themselves.

4) The Kadak Cutting Chai


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I know the Irish coffee at Prithvi is world famous. But go a little desi and try the cutting chai next time you visit Prithvi. And trust me, you will not be disappointed . I know hoards of college students who come just for the cutting chai to Prithvi Cafe every day! And yes, you may just find a Kalki Koechlin, Vinay Pathak or a Makarand Deshpande sitting right next to you at the cafe. Do pick up a conversation, they are extremely friendly. I guess it's the Prithvi atmosphere!!!

5) The warmth


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Everything kept aside, I end up going back to Prithvi for the warmth it offers. My theater love has taken me to a lot of theaters all over Mumbai. And a good lot of them just reek of snootiness. But Prithvi is home. From the staff to the very atmosphere, everything is so welcoming. Prithvi , to me, epitomizes Mumbai. Just like people from different cities, backgrounds and classes find a place of their own in this city and end up calling it home, everyone finds a second home in Prithvi. You would find businessmen, college students, struggling actors, established actors, corporate honchos at Prithvi. And the place just engulfs each one of them in its warmth and love.






Sunday, 12 October 2014

This Diwali light up a life


Diwali is just around the corner and festivity shopping is on full spree. Check out the latest offering from Patched which will brighten up your home this Diwali. Also, each product which you buy will light up someones life this festival season.











Friday, 10 October 2014

Thursday, 28 August 2014

Chinese Coffee





Chinese Coffee is a story of two friends - Yakub and Harvinder (a.k.a Harry). Both Yakub and Harry are in their late forty's and devoid of any success in their respective professions. The play explores their relationship against the backdrop of their personal and professional turmoils.

Harry is a writer . On the wrong side of forty and devoid of any professional success till now, he is working on, probably, his last attempt to make it big in the literary world. Yakub is Harry's friend who quits fashion photography to do "more meaningful " work.

Hard pressed for money, Harry lands up at Yakub's place on a cold Delhi winter night to collect the money he had lent Yakub ages ago. Yakub, who is equally penniless, tells Harry that he has no money to repay him. This leads to a series of arguments between the two protagonists. Amidst this, Harry suddenly remembers that he had left the manuscript of his new book with Yakub. Harry wanted Yakub's opinion on the book before he went to the publishers with it. Yakub staunchly denies having read the book at all (despite having read it) .
As the play progresses. Harry and Yakub  try to find the  "lesser failure" of the two.  Yakub finally accepts that he has read the book and accuses Harry of rummaging though his personal life to write it , thereby, belittling his literary skills as a writer. Yakub even takes a jibe at Harry by saying that had he been a writer, his works would have been far superior than what Harry has ever written. On the other hand, Harry remarks that it's Yakub's jealousy which is preventing him from acknowledging the worth of his new book. Yakub's envy makes Harry revel in triumph. It was as if he had found his book's success in Yakub's jealousy.

The play is an amalgamation of subtle emotions and powerful outbursts of feelings. In my opinion, though Harry was in dire of need money, he didn't really want Yakub to repay his loan. His loan gave him the right to barge into Yakub's house in the middle of the night and pour his heart out. It gave Harry a sense of power over Yakub. Cribbing about his own failures in front of another failed man one gave Harry a kind of comfort zone and a cushion from being judged . On the other hand, though, Yakub was indeed penniless to repay Harry's loan, he wasn't really in a hurry to repay the loan either. He may have asked Harry to leave time and again but he, in fact, wanted to sit back and listen to Harry rant.  Blustering of another non achiever anointed Yakub's own wounds. I think Harry and Yakub tried to find solace in each others failures.

The play has a lot of references to Delhi. I liked the connotations, not because I am jingoist Delhite, but because I think  it creates a personal connect with the audience. It's like breaking that fourth wall to a certain degree. Vrajesh Hirjee as Harry and Danish Hussain as Yakub enacted their respective characters with masterly finesse. The clear diction of the actors (which, unfortunately, lacked in a lot of plays I have seen in the recent past) was absolute erotica for my ears. The play, however, seems a little stretched towards the end. I think a  five to ten minutes trimming of the play would definitely make it more impactful.

I loved the subtle way the insecurities of the characters have been showcased. The actors  tip toed on the thin line between tacit envy and strong outburst of emotions adroitly and overshadowed the script. If for nothing else, go watch this play just  for  Vrajesh Hirjee and Danish Hussain.







Wednesday, 2 July 2014

Kambakht Bilkul Aurat




This is the second part of Ismat Aapa Ke Naam and takes the journey forward.  Like the first part, this one, too, is divided into three short monologues.

                                                              Amarbel


"Amar Bel" discovers beauty's ugly truth. Manoj Pahawa plays the 50 year old Nawab who gets married to a young beautiful girl. Her beauty blossoms him and she soon becomes the reason for his very existence. But then time is beauty's greatest enemy. Unfortunately, here it wasn't the beautiful wife but the husband who fell prey to it. With time, he grew weaker while she became prettier with each passing day. It was like age ripened her beauty even more. People would now mistake her to be the Nawab's daughter, much to his agony. Her beauty, once a source of his pride, now became an eye sore for him. His love turned into regular beatings and curses. He would accuse her of luring young men while she tired every possible way to get rid of  one of the most desired things in the world - "Beauty" in exchange for another most desired - "Love". However, all her efforts were in vain. While the Nawab died a little each passing day , she turned prettier and prettier. It was as if her beauty was a parasite, feeding on the Nawab's life just like an Amarbel, a parasitic vine which feeds off its host and eventually causes it to die.

I love the parallel drawn to Amarbel. It makes you ponder if beauty driven love is like a parasite which would eventually lead to your doom? And is the parasite to be blamed? Because in the whole process,  the parasite's existence eventually becomes dependent on its host. Tragically beautiful isn't it - a parasite and its hosts love story. One dies to keep the other alive, but in the end neither survives.

Vanity, you are a short lived tyrant but a long lived curse.

                                                            Do Haath


"Do Haath" explores the significance of a poor man's two hands for him. The hands are a source of income for a poor man, hence, his most prized possession. Ram Avtaar , a soldier, marries Gauri but unfortunately, has to leave the very next day to honour his professional commitments. While Ram Avtaar was away, she worked as a sweeper in the village in the place of her mother-in-law. As a new bride, Gauri was submissive and coy.  Intially, she would go to work with a veil so long that people would wonder how she managed to work with it on. However, as time passed and  with Ram Avtaar nowhere in sight, her veil became shorter and shorter. Gauri was dark and fat and conventionally ugly but she swept the menfolk of their feet with her provocative ways. Threatened by the local janitor, the village women summon her mother-in-law. She responded by thrashing Gauri just to appease the women.
Soon arrives Ram Rati, Ram Avtaar's flamboyant cousin from the neighbouring village. Devoid of the pleasures of married life, she finds solace in Ram Rati's arms and she eventually becomes pregnant. The villagers ask Ram Avtaar's mother to send Gauri back to her maternal home for she had committed a sin. But her mother- in -law refuses to do so. She tells them that she has already paid a lot for Gauri and she can't afford to pay for another wife for his son. Meanwhile, Ram Avtaar returns back to the village after two years to find his wife pregnant. Soon she delivers a baby boy. Instead of being livid at her for giving birth to an illegitimate child, he celebrates his birth. After all, his wife give birth to "do haath" which will take care of him in his old age.
For Ram Avtaar, it did not matter whom the child belonged to. All he knew was that he had a secure future now as his son would take care of him during his old age. For him, survival was more important than morality. After all, poverty has no religion and hunger has no morals.


                                                         Nanhi ki Nani



The third story is about "Nanhi ki Nani" . Orphaned at a very young age, Nanhi was survived only by her Nani. Nanhi was a jovial girl and Nani doted on her little grand daughter. However, abject poverty and old age forced Nani to make Nanhi work at a young age. Nanhi was to work at the Bade Sahib's house as the domestic help. Bade Sahib was a rich and reputable man of the locality. Little did Nani know that" Bade" Sahib had a very "small character". One day, when he was alone in the house with Nanhi , he robbed the poor little girl of her childhood and innocence. Nanhi was never the same again. She grew before her time. Her Nani tried to heal her wounds but the women from the neighbourhood would scratch open her fresh wound's every day. They would ask her about the details of that ill-fated day and  question her if she actually liked it. It is here, where Ismat takes a jibe at the concept of Sisterhood and how ironical is it that a woman derives pleasure out of another woman's ordeal. Tormented with constant taunts and being taken as a sexual commodity for no fault of her own, Nanhi runs away to a bigger town. Nani tells everyone that Nanhi died of cholera to save the young girls little left dignity. The poor woman is left alone after Nanhi's departure.
But  the loss of her young children and Nanhi wasn't the only trauma Nani had to deal with. There was more humiliation to come her way. One day, while Nani was sleeping on the terrace, a few monkeys got hold of her pillow and ran away with it. Nani chased them, sometimes besieging and sometimes scaring them into returning her pillow. But the monkeys ripped her open her pillow in front of a huge crowd which had gathered by now. Nani had hidden everything she had ever stolen inside that pillow. Things of little consequence to people from whom they had been stolen. But on seeing their old non-prized possession, people did not leave the opportunity to call her a thief and hurl abuses at her. Nani's health deteriorated day by day after the incident. Eventually, she died alone with her body curled and stiffened. People made repeated attempt to straighten her body for her final burial but in vain. Well, how could they, the society had stiffened her soul so much that no power could undo it now.
The story highlights the hypocrisy of our society and the curse of poverty. The very people who accused Nani of stealing their things, didn't utter a word when the Bade Sahib robbed Nanhi off her childhood. Morality seems to be an albatross only around a poor man's neck.

I like how Nanhi Ki Nani and Do Haath potray two sides of the same coin- morality and poverty. Choosing of  two very contrasting yet similar stories to be staged in the same play is absolutely commendable. The powerful script was backed by an excellent execution.

So coming back to the title of the play - Kambakht Bilkul Aurat. So who is this Kambakht aurat and why is she so. Kambakht is a woman  whose existence doesn't depend on a man's being. A woman confident of her self, sexuality, work, upbringing, education - in short- a woman who makes a man uncomfortable in his own terrain. All I would say is that if you are a woman and Kambakht, congratulations, you are a part of a privileged class. And Ismat Chughtai you are certainly the most Kambhakt of us all.




Wednesday, 14 May 2014

The Dove Play Date

I take a break from being the usual theater guide to reminisce about a day loaded with pampering and fun. 

It would be an understatement to say that the dove date play was an experience of a lifetime. Dove date play was an all-women all bloggers meet. Spread across series of games and fun filled activities, dove told us how strong, endearing and beautiful we all women are.

The scrumptious spread at the event


We were divided into 12 team of 10 members each. We were to name our teams after a hairstyle and we named our team the "Bun Games". It was fun meeting these women from different walks of life and bonding with them over food, drinks and games.


"Usie" - Team Bun Games

We began with Zumba. Conscious of on-lookers and struck by the glaze of our self-created imperfect appearances , dancing in public is, probably, one of the world’s most common phobia. But at the dove play date, we all threw our consciousness out of the window and danced. And boy! Didn't we all love it? I think this session was on the lines of what Dove as a brand has always wished to achieve – To forget the superficial external appearances and to celebrate your inner beauty!


Zumba-austed


Now began the series of team games. Our team’s first challenge was the Jig-Saw puzzle. I like how each of the games had an underlying message connecting to the brand’s ideology. For me, each of the teams represented a dove product and the broken jig-saw pieces the various hair and skin problem, we women go through. And just like we all worked together to get the pieces in place, dove, too, works to fixes our broken hair and skin together.

Next up was the Hoola Hoop. Though we all failed miserably to balance our loops, we had mad fun trying our hands at it. The activity subtly suggested that how we as women "balance" out so many roles in a day as mothers, daughters, daughter-in-laws, sisters, co-workers, wives but we never cringe. We essay each role so beautifully and with so much of love and fun. Just like dove, which “balances” out the roughness of our hair and skin, day-in and day-out with sheer love.
 
Move your body, baby!

Then was the time for some ball catching. We sailed through the challenge with sore back and knees though. But then, when a woman sets her eye on something, there is no stopping her.


Glued to the ball count. Super competitive, aren't we?


Our last challenge was at the hair styling booth. Each one of us had to become a hairstylist for the challenge and try "different" hairstyles on each other.  And we all did a stupendous job. Curly, wavy, straight, rough, dry, silky – no matter how “different “ your hair may be, Dove makes it all look the same -  beautiful.

Team Bun Games styling like professional stylists
                                       
Done with our challenges, it was time to pamper ourselves. It was time for the Dove Salon. Armed with our personal stylists, we all transformed into the divas with our new hairstyles. After all, hair is the crown we wear on our heads everyday. 

Pampering at the Dove Salon

Though the entire day was amazing, this one particular incident stands out in my memory. I remember how one of my team members injured her finger during the jig saw challenge. The Dove team members came to her aid immediately and tended to her injury. But this is not where it ends, the organizers made sure everyone was dropped back home safely. I, especially, liked how each participant was asked to drop a message to one of the organizers once they reach back home safely. This can be expected only from a brand which has cared for women and their well-being for generations now.

All I can say is that Dove really stands by its motto- Go play and we will take care of the rest.

To sum it up, each of the activities at the event alluded to the fact that real beauty comes from sheer happiness and having fun. Dove's campaign for real beauty is absolutely commendable. What I love about Dove is that they did not try to sell us any skin lightening products at the event. For Dove, the stress has always been on products which will make your hair and skin smooth, soft and clean. And that's exactly what toiletries are meant and supposed to do. Dove doesn't try to sell you unreal and make believe images of super model and celebrities. It has in fact constantly urged women to celebrate their natural beauty. Kudos to Team Dove for that.


Please do watch this beautiful video about women and the flawed perception they have about their own beauty. The video is a part of Dove's campaign for real beauty.

Dove Real Beauty Sketches
                                                                  Source: YouTube


Amidst the grind of this patriarchal world, Dove made us all feel blessed to be born as women. Thank you Dove for pampering us on the play date and through your products for all these years.

For everyday pampering, log on to - 






Thursday, 10 April 2014

Piya Behrupiya

                         

A Lady with a strong Punjabi accent and a suitor with a Bhojpuri twang. Can’t be characters from a Shakespeare play, right? Well, you are gravely mistaken. Piya Behrupiya is the hindi adaptation of Shakespeare’s "The Twelfth Night" with a twist. It is a colorful combination of vibrant songs and peculiar accents.A soliloquy aficionado, I have a habit of writing off large cast plays. But I was to be proven wrong very soon.

Separated from her twin brother Sebastian on the shores of Illyria, Viola disguises as Cesario and soon becomes the sole confidant of Duke Orsino. Viola is in love with Duke Orsino who is in love with Lady Olivia who in turn is in love with Cesario. Amidst the chaos and mistaken identities, is madness, laughter and  frenzy. The merengue ends when Sebastian turns up in the end and Duke Orsino recognizes Viola’s love for him.

More than the script, it is the screenplay and super fabulous performance of the actors that steals the show. My personal favourite is the petite Viola who is fire on the stage. Her distinct hindi accent gives a different appeal to the play. Lady Olivia with her peculiar Punjabi accent is another class act. Also, the music of the play bolsters the ethnic touch it wishes to achieve. The way the play has been given the native touch is commendable.

I cannot serve justice to this play here. This play needs to be lived through even if you cringe at the very name of going for a play.

 “Deny thy India and refuse thy re-birth” – Shakespeare threatened God in his grave. 

Friday, 28 March 2014

Kharaashein - The scars from riots


Kharaashein is about the emotional scars that communal riots leave behind , those that time can never heal.







Fear is a double edged sword. Fear can foster new relationships amidst animosity and at the same time sow the seeds of suspicion and rupture a healthy relationship. These two very contrasting stories exemplify this fact.
"Khuda Hafiz" is about two men stuck in a riot torn city who stumble upon each other while hiding from the fanatics running amock in the city . Apprehensive and scared about each other's religious identity, eventually they both find find solace and comfort in each other's religious anonymity. While the rest of the city draws strength on the grounds of communal homogeneity, the thread of fear binds these two riot struck men.

  


"Khauff", narrated by Atul Kulkarni, is a story  of two riot torn men aboard a local train compartment. Both the victims of the same devil. One of the men boards the train to go back home and hides in one corner of the empty compartment waiting for his station to arrive. His momentary peace is broken when a stranger boards a train and begins to close all the doors. Suspicious and unsure of the person's motive in a hostile atmosphere of communal riots, the man begins to tremble. Gathering strength out of his fears, he realizes his only chance of survival is by killing that man. In battle for survival, he manages to overpower this religiously anonymous man and flings him out of the train, only to hear a scream . " Yah allah" the words that shook him because he had killed a brethren and not because he had killed another man. That day something inside him did, eventually, die.




The play is a beautiful collection of poignant stories like"Raavi Paar" which takes you back to the era of partition. A Hindu couple, with newly born twins, are forced to move from Pakistan to India.One of the twins succumbs to harsh weather and lack of food. However, the mother refuses to come out of her state of denial and continues to feed both her children from her bosom. When the train passes over river Raavi, the father, with a heavy heart, decides to give his dead child to the holy river in a symbolic makeshift religious burial. He hears a baby cry along with the splashing of water. In the pitch darkness of night, he had accidentally thrown his alive child into the river while the mother still held on to the cold dead body of their other child. This story enacted by Lubna Salim and Yashpal Sharma sends a chill down your spine. The loss of a child and the guilt of killing  the other one is a sorrow which happiness of seven lives cannot negate.

                                            

Then you are taken to the home of a Bengali couple, played by Lubna Salim and Yashpal Sharma in the story named "Hilsa" amidst their morning banter. The couple are shown discussing every details of their soon to be scrumptious meal- Hilsa. The wife casually talks about the fish  being so beautiful, without an iota of sympathy, when she finds eggs while cutting her open while her husband admires the dead fish's big beautiful eyes.  Amidst all this, arrives the Sunday newspaper with the news of a rape in the city. The inconsiderate newspaper also carried the photo of the rape victim. The couple discuss about the appalling state of the society and sympathize with the victim when suddenly the husband casually remarks how her eyes remind him of those of the the dead Hilsa. It is then when it strikes them that they have been on the other end of the spectrum when it came to that fish. The story is a subtle reminder of the dual standards we all adhere to in our day to day life. How we cry for justice when we belong to the meeker set while blindly abuse those very powers when bestowed upon us.

The play is an amalgamation of a strong script, heart wrenching dialogues, powerful acting and beautiful analogies. It jilts your conscious and has a strong after effect.

I would like to end this with one of my favourite lines from the play. I can't recall the exact lines but the gist of it goes like:
"Every time I feel cold in this alien city, I cover myself with the warm blanket of love you sent me with"

Thursday, 2 January 2014

Ismat Apa Ke Naam



I am feminist. Not those bra burning kinds though. However, I have a problem with how just because a woman writes about sex and her physical desires, the work becomes revolutionary and ahead of the times. I went to see Ismat Apa ke Naam with the very same mindset about Ismat Chughtai's work . But I was gladly surprised. Ismat Chughtai is a lot more than that. Her stories are not just about a women and their sexual desires but about real women, their survival in this patriarchal society and the battles they fight daily.  I am sure a lot of young women, like me, aspire to be the Chanda Kochar and Indra Nooyis of the world. The one's who adorn the front cover of those glossy magazines, the great women achievers of the world. Not taking away any credit from these accomplished ladies, I think the real heroes are the women who earn to keep the kitchen running in their homes, women who deliver babies and are still expected to work on fields the very next day without ever expecting to even be appreciated. Ismat Chugai writes about these women. Her stories may have been written years back but they are relevant even today.

The play is performed in the form of three soliloquies.
              Chui Mui

Giving birth to a new life is probably the most beautiful experience for a woman. Unfortunately, in our country, for some women it is nothing less than a nightmare. “Chui Mui” , narrated by Hiba Shah, is a story of a women whose  fulcrum of existence in this world was a male heir. The story trails back to the Mughal era. Married at a tender age into a rich household, she was oblivious to the struggles of life. Her only “duty” was to provide her husband with his successor. Unfortunately, she suffers miscarriage time and again. Her husband threatens to re-marry in case she is not able to fulfill her sole duty towards him. What should have been a little bundle of joy becomes an albatross around her neck. Despite her frail health, she becomes desperate to have a child. The child becomes the bridge between her and a comfortable future. The entire household turns into a fortress so that she can deliver the baby safely this time round but in vain. Her situation is contrasted with that of a lady she meets in a train compartment. This heavily pregnant poor woman flings into the compartment and gives birth without any aid or assistance and probably out of wedlock.  It seemed like life just played the cruelest of its jokes. Tragically, not much has changed since those times. We still continue to be a male child obsessed society. However, the poor pregnant woman was the silver lining of the story. As a woman, to me, she represented the power to challenge the antiquated societal norms. She represented the fact that the power to conceive happiness lies in the womb of freedom of choices and not in muslin wrapped bondages.

       Mughal Bache





The second story is beautifully contrasted with the first one. It tells how a woman subtly stands her own ground in a patriarchal society without defying the rules of the society. “Mughal bache”, narrated by Ratna Pathak Shah, unfolds the story of a Mughal king and his wife. The Mughal king, unlike the other Mughals, was dark complexioned and deprived of the family good lucks. His complexion earned him the name of Kaale Miyan. Destiny plays another cruel joke on the kingdom-less ruler, and his family fixes his match with an extremely fair girl- Gori Bi. The match becomes the subject of tea time gossip for the family members and Kaale Miyan, the object of ridicule. This makes Kaale Miyan develop an instant dislike for his innocuous bride. The groom lifts his wife's veil on the wedding night.  This was an unsaid tradition in the Mughal household.  Gori Bi, like other girls in the family, grew up listening this. Soon the wedding day arrived and Gori Bi and Kaale Miyan were tied in holy matrimony. On the wedding night, Kaale Miyan, burning with insults of ridicule bought upon him by the conjugal alliance and marred with his own inferiority complex, refuses to lift his bride’s veil and instead asks her to do so. Gori Bi, a woman, literate of her beauty, refused to succumb to her husband’s arrogance. In a battle of egos, the night ends with Kaale Miyan leaving Gori Bi to move to a new place. She spends her entire life sans the bliss matrimony brings along with it. To me, her decision signified strength. In a society and era, where a woman’s identity and right to happiness was tied to her husband, she chose her ideals over them.  During the narration of the story, Ratna Pathak Shah very subtly remarks that she wonders how Gori Bi must have lived her lived her life deprived of the joys of physical intimacy. Ismat Chughtai won me here. I have rarely heard this being even pondered over. A woman’s sexual desires cease to exist in our society. That women just need to be supported financially and emotionally is a myth and it needs to be shattered.


                                                                                                        Gharwali
  
In a country, where your morals are linked to the family you are born into, Lajjo, the main protagonist of the story was born into anonymity . Thereby, a wench by birth.  A woman, aware of her beauty, she didn't battle an eye lid while giving into her desires. She is brought to Mirza Sahib to look after his house by one of his friends, much to his reluctance initially. Lajjo looks after the house like she owns it, while shamelessly flirting with Mirza and the neighbours. Lajjo thrives on this attention. Mirza, the “simpleton”, too finally succumbs to Lajjo’s charm and beauty. Insecure of her admirers and shamless flirting ways , Mirza binds her in the chains of matrimony. Marriage wades off Lajjo’s admirers and Mirza, like most of the men, neglects her like a taken commodity. Deprived of adoration, Lajjo begins to resent the covenant of marriage. She decides to break the “sacrosanct bond “which is till date considered to be the sole key to a woman’s happiness in this society to find happiness again. Ironically, for Lajjo , that key closed the door to her happiness instead of opening it. For me, Lajjo embodies the fact, that happiness lies in living the life you choose for yourself and not the life this society chooses for you.

The strength of this play, apart from a well - written script, are its narrators. The beauty and ease with which they adopt and switch between various characters in their stories through subtle nuances make the characters come alive on the stage. This is one play you can't afford to miss.